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The Secret Culprit behind Over-Thinking: Fear
By Saturday afternoon there was already 18 inches of snow. Tree limbs sagged with the weight and narrow, shoveled paths wiggled toward the garage. And, it was still snowing. The boxwood hedges, that I have nurtured since they were tiny, splayed apart from mounds of...
Forget Boisterous Bravado. Three Tips for Authentic Leadership
Last week, I participated in my first speaker showcase. More than 20 speakers provided ten minutes of their program to a room full of 200 meeting planners. Hearing different a motivational christian speaker throughout the day it brought nerves on. It was like speed...
Power in the Pause: Re-imagining the Workday
It starts the instant the alarm on the phone sounds. There's that jarring moment even if you set the phone for a soft harp, quiet ring, or the chirp of crickets. It's off to the races. We struggle to pack more and more in and feel bad when we're not successful. I'm...
Stop! Before Launching 2016, Reap Rewards from 2015
Have you ever noticed that little bits of wisdom show up in the most unexpected places? I love when that happens. It was an overcast New Year’s Eve morning as my girlfriends and I met for our morning run. The Chesapeake Bay glistened silvery and still as we jogged...
Feeling Deflated? Take Time to Reflect and Rearrange
Carols were sung, gifts were exchanged and fudge was consumed. After all of the holiday hub-bub, it's easy to feel a bit deflated. Instead of the excitement of finding the just-right gift and anticipating the look of glee on a kid's face, you're left to fight the...
Family Dynamics? Four Tips to Stay Merry and Bright
‘Twas the night before Christmas...and family dynamics are taking a toll. There are the folks you see often and those less regularly. Some relationships are easy and welcome. Others ...well, other relationships may grate on your nerves. Let's face it, some family...
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You Can Learn Infotuition!
One-and-two-and-three-and-four... My dad sat next to me counting out the beats as I practiced the clarinet. Night after night he taught and I learned. I was good but was never going to be the next Bennie Goodman. Nonetheless, I read and play music and appreciate the...
Does Anyone You Know Need More Motivation?
Is there someone in your office who needs a little motivation? Are you part of a team who you'd like to motivate to higher performance? Do you need motivation? Or are you simply looking to continue your professional development growth? No matter what your motivation,...
Three Steps to Stop the Storytelling in Your Head
You're in a long security line at the airport. A LONG line. A frazzled, middle-aged, perspiring, blonde woman rushes up from behind. "Excuse me! My plane is leaving! May I cut in line?" In that moment, what do you think? Perhaps some of the more gracious of us think,...
The Disruptive Power of Stress
I had a plan. On the first leg of the flight to Reno, I would work on a new webinar series and on the second leg of the flight, after connecting in Vegas, I would work on materials for a client. I worked steadily during the first flight until the medical emergency...
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